WHY DO YOU SCREAM AT A PERSON WHEN THEY ARE ANGRY?

A Tibetan Story tells, that one day an old wise man asked his followers the following: – Why do people scream when they are angry? Men thought for a few moments: -Because we lost our calm – one said – that’s why we screamed. - -But why scream when the other person is next to you? - asked the wise - Can't it be possible to speak to him in a low voice? Why do you yell at a person when you're angry? Men gave some other answers but none of them satisfies the wise. Finally he explained: -When two people are angry, their hearts go far away. To cover that distance you must scream, to be able to hear. The more angry they are, the louder they'll have to scream to hear each other through that great distance. Then the wise man continued: – What happens when two people fall in love? They don't scream but talk softly why? Their hearts are so close. The distance between them is very small. The wise smiled and said: – When they fall in love even more, what happens? They don't talk, they just whisper, and they get even closer in their love. Finally they don't even need to whisper, they just look and that's it. This is how close two people are when they love each other... And then he said: -When they argue do not let your hearts go away, do not say words to distance them more, there may be a day when the distance is so much that they do not find the way back anymore... - All credits to their respective Author 🙏